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25th December 2015
10:00am GMT
Jack Frost Nibbles
Playing with hot and cold temperatures is a great way to add excitement and variety. Hold some ice cubes in your mouth, then give him ice cold kisses all over, from his lips all the way down to his penis. He will literally be shivering with excitement.
Jingle Balls
If things have gotten a little same-y lately, consider spicing things up by giving his crown jewels a little extra attention. Sex therapist and author of Expanded Orgasm says: "Every man’s sensitivity down there is different," says Taylor. "Some enjoy a slightly rough handling, while others prefer to keep things light." Start gentle and monitor his responses carefully to gauge his fondling threshold.
Let It Snow
When you are giving him oral sex, spice things up by letting him ejaculate somewhere new. (And try to fight the urge to clean up straight away.)
O Come All Yee Faithful
The fact is, the female anatomy is a little more complicated than the male's when it comes to orgasming, so the key here is to choose a position where you have complete control over the pace and depth of thrusting. A great way to do this is to have your partner sit at the end corner of the bed, and straddle him here. This way your feet are on the floor giving you complete control, and the position allows for clitoral stimulation, which for most of us, is key to achieving the big O.
Baby It's Cold Outside
While sex can be really kinky and exciting with the lights on and out from under the duvets, it can be really romantic and sensual to embrace the fact that it's freezing and create your own little cosy den. Turn the lights off, light some candles and get right under the covers like a fort. There's something really sexy about a fumble in the darkness.
Jingle Bed Rock
So we all know that sex in the family home is challenging. We advise you turn Netflix up really loud, and lie down on your back. Have him lie flat on top of you, slide in and gently rock back and forth as quietly as possible. This is surprisingly sexy, and closeness of your pelvis' leads to a mind-blowing orgasm.
Christmas Turkey
A festive twist on the classic doggy style rear-entry position. For this, you need to get on your knees, bending forward so that your knees are tucked into your body.
Have your partner enter from behind, grabbing your calves for leverage. This is great for G-spot access.
Rockin' Around The Christmas Tree
Similarly to Festive wrapping, this sees you straddle him while he's sitting up, but this time his legs are crossed. Keep one hand around his shoulders and the other on the bed to lean, and have him do the same thing. Then rock back and forth in sync rather than you moving up and down. This will knock both your stockings off the mantelpiece.
Festive Wrapping
This is another great female orgasm position. Have him sit up on the bed with his legs outstretched in front. Climb up and wrap your legs around him. You can control the pace and you'll be able to give Christmas kisses throughout.
Sleigh Ride
In a similar way to the cowgirl position, straddle him while he is lying down flat. But he turns into Santa's Little Helper, by grabbing your bum and lifting you up and down, while also rising with his pelvis to meet you halfway. It takes a little bit of synchronisation, but when you find your rhythm you'll be up, up and away.
Hot Chocolate
For the really adventurous couple, human fondue is so much fun, and incredibly hot. Melt some chocolate, and (after you've made very VERY sure it's not too hot) drizzle it over his body. Then slowly lick it off, returning to his mouth for kisses every now and then. This is excellent foreplay. It gets messy, but trust us, you won't care.
