After 8 years, smoking had become an integral part of my life and dictated hugely the places I would socialize.
Before my friends and I chose where to go we would consider how nice, spacious and heated the smoking area would be.
At parties, I spent the vast majority of my time huddled in a small group of close friends, outside. As I wrote in previous entries to this series, I preferred small groups and smoking seemed like a good way to stick with my closest pals.
Since quitting, I’ve become much more adventurous in my social activities. Last week I wrote about the chunk of change I’ve saved and this month I used that to go for a bang up fancy meal in lieu of sitting in a cold smoking area.
I still enjoy small groups but now I’m finding places and experiences that far more enjoyable, healthier and are creating better memories.
During the cold weeks of January, I found I actually enjoyed sitting inside by a fire and uninterrupted by the constant need to break for a cigarette, I had better and more meaningful conversations with my family and friends.
For me, quitting smoking has opened up a whole new world of possibilities. My motivation for quitting was a desire to become the person I knew I could be. I had a vision of myself as a confident, healthy, independent person but I shied behind cigarettes. When I couldn’t keep up with friends on a walk it was because I was a smoker. When I didn’t want to participate in the conversation anymore I could leave and go outside, because I was a smoker.
Since quitting, I’ve eaten in nice restaurants, I’ve sat for hours talking to my mother, I’ve climbed a mountain.
Now everything I want to do is achievable because I’ve overcome the biggest obstacle between me and that better version of myself: my addiction. I’m mentally more in tune with my own needs and now and I am more willing to look after myself.
Cigarettes are no longer my crutch. They are a distant memory and shall remain as such.
By Cassie Delaney.
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