Taylor Swift Responds To Fan’s Teen Crush Dilemma With Pretty Epic Message About Love 7 years ago

Taylor Swift Responds To Fan’s Teen Crush Dilemma With Pretty Epic Message About Love

We may find it hard to keep up with Taylor Swift’s lovelife, but the 26-year old seems to have picked up a thing or two along the way.

A young fan (aka @SherbetSwift) reached out to Taylor after finding out that her crush already had a girlfriend with an "amazing figure."


Realising that the teen was probably suffering from a broken heart, Taylor took some time out of her day to message the young girl back with some sage words of advice:

"Hannah. Eyes, eyes, eyes. Woah. You have the prettiest, widest, most child like eyes. (Composes herself) Okay. About this guy. I think we grow up thinking the only love that counts as true love is the kind that lasts forever or is fully realized. When you have a broken heart, the first thing a stranger will ask is 'how long were you two together?' As if your pain can be determined by how long you were with someone. Or if you were with them at all. I don't think that's how it works. I think unrequited love is just as valid as any other kind. It's just as crushing and just as thrilling. No matter what happens in this situation, I want you to remember that what you are doing is selfless and beautiful and kind. You are loving someone purely because you love them, not because you think you'll ever have your affections reciprocated. You are admiring something for its beauty, without needing to own it. Feel good about being the kind of person who loves selflessly. I think someday you'll find someone who loves you in that exact same way."

The fan’s reaction when she found out her idol had messaged her back?

“I feel like you're the big sister I don't have."

Too sweet. And some seriously good advice too!