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11th July 2021
10:15am BST

As the video made its way to Twitter, several people shared their own experiences with making friends as an adult, and pointed out how challenging it is.
"I'm still so mad about people making fun of the guys trying to find more friends," one person tweeted. "Contrary to popular belief, it is easy to end up relatively friendless and lonely as an adult due to a variety of circumstances."
"It's easy to feel like you're judging someone on a very surface level, swiping left and right," Colette says. "But honestly it was pretty easy to strike up conversation and just see if you've got something in common."
She explains that when it comes to meeting up with people, it's definitely less nerve-wracking.
"At least you don't need to worry about them finding you attractive," she adds.
Since she's started using the app, Colette's met two friends who she still sees regularly.
"I've met others on there who I've had a good time with, but neither of us followed up for another meet-up afterwards. That's fine too though, I've really never had a bad time on a meet-up, and you can discover a new coffee shop or part of the city you've never been to."
Indeed, friend matching apps - Bumble BFF, Friender and Meetup - can do a lot of the work for you. Bumble BFF works exactly the same way as the dating version, although the reply system isn't gendered. It's up to you or your match to start the chat before it expires. With Meetup, users can get in touch with groups who share a specific hobby - whether that's hiking, knitting or just going for drinks.
Like Colette, Becky used Tinder to met her best friend when she moved to Poland.
"We were both new to the city and didn't know anyone," she tells me. "I had my Tinder set to 'looking for new friends', and she had the same. We met and hit it off straight away."
"Living abroad literally forces you to try and make friends, otherwise you won't have a social life," she adds.
Making friends as an adult may seem daunting at first, but by leveraging apps and technology the process becomes a lot less intimidating.Explore more on these topics: