Leaving your family, friends and everyday life behind to set out into the world alone can be a daunting concept.
It’s one of those things many wouldn’t even consider, because of the unknown. But if you are thinking about exploring the globe solo, know this: it’s an exhilarating experience and one that you will treasure for the rest of your life.
With that in mind, we’ve put together a list of things you should plan and consider before you book those one-way tickets…
1. You have the luxury of going wherever you want – take advantage of it
When travelling with a group of friends or a partner, it’s rare that everyone will get to do what they want. Embrace that each day, you make the call and decision about where you want to go, what you want to do or eat and who you hang out with. You don’t have to compromise – enjoy it.
2. Google Map everything before you arrive
Google is a GODSEND for anyone travelling to a country where they speak a foreign language. Streetview in particular will give you a sense of your surroundings and prepare you for getting from A to B without looking like a little lost tourist. Print off several Google Map routes with directions for specific places you need to find. This will help you find the right trains, trams and buses.
3. Plan to arrive during the day
For your own peace of mind (and for your poor mother’s nerves), try to arrive in your selected country during the day. Trying to find your way through the dark in an unfamiliar city is tricky at best and could put you in danger unless you are well prepared.
4. Book group day tours
This will save you the hassle of trying to get somewhere like the Mayan pyramids or the Great Wall of China via public transport (nightmare). Opt for the private bus instead where possible (try to budget for this). It’s also a handy way of making friends!
5. Keep your belongings close
You are the sole person looking after your belongings. Keep a watchful eye on everything at all times. If you’re nervous about your passport, a good tip is to take a photo of it and email it to yourself or a friend in case you ever lose it. It will make it easier at the embassy when trying to get home.
6. Try a cooking class
Cooking a meal with local produce is such a lovely way to immerse yourself in a new culture. It might even give you culinary skills you never knew you had! This is a brilliant activity for solo travellers… tasty too!
7. Take pictures. Many pictures.
We can’t stress this enough. Take as many photos as you can, of everything around you. You will regret it if you don’t. Take photos of roads, oceans, buildings, sunsets, sunrises, people (if they let you) and good ‘aul shameless selfies.
8. Bring a book and have a good playlist ready
There’s nothing nicer than sitting in a café in Mexico, reading a book and sipping coffee, with no one to bother you. And if you’re going on long plane or train journeys, prepare a few playlists for different moods to entertain you as you gaze out the window or make you feel better if you get homesick.
9. Don’t be scared to dine alone
It’s one of those things that we all find slightly embarrassing, but when travelling on your own, you really have no choice but to eat alone sometimes so embrace it. Stretch out and enjoy your meal just as you would if you were having lunch with your bestie – who the hell cares?! If you’re self-conscious, bring that book.
10. Don’t be afraid to mix with others
It’s always scary trying to make new friends when you’re travelling, but it’s so important to let yourself go and hang out with others. To avoid only speaking to yourself on your trip, try opening up and chatting with the travellers around you. You’ll feel much better and it’ll make your adventure even more special. Take it from us; this might seem awkward at the start but by the time you’re on the way home you’ll wonder why you were ever so shy!
11. Be open to learning some of the language
If you’re heading to the likes of France or Germany, it doesn’t hurt to brush up on your French or German. You’ll feel more at ease if you can learn your survival sentences such as ‘can I have another glass of wine please?’
12. Don’t go off the beaten track alone
It may go without saying, but make a conscious decision to avoid dodgy or unknown locations, especially in the dark. Stay in safe touristic areas and always hail a registered taxi if you need one. Research this beforehand – blogs and message boards offer a wealth of local information that the guidebooks don’t always tell you. Keep in touch with friends and family at home on a daily basis and keep them informed about your plans for each day. If you are worried or encounter someone you have concerns about, tell as many people as you can.
13. Be brave
It takes a lot of courage to go travelling alone. Be proud of your decision and turn your fear into excitement by planning ahead. Once you’re confident about your travel plans and your safety, all that’s left to do is enjoy every last minute.
