A University College Cork student’s honest and open account of holding his boyfriend’s hand through the streets of the city is going viral.
Olan Harrington’s writing for the UCC ‘Human of Homophobia’ campaign details the fears, anxiety and anger that he experiences as he walks hand-in-hand with the person that he loves dearly.
Homophobia is prevalent in Ireland, however LGBT issues have been highlighted more in the last 12 months with thanks to Panti Bliss' incredible speech and movements such as UCC's.
Olan’s piece was picked up by Huffington Post after first being published on his own wordpress.
"I held my boyfriend's hand the other day. I caught it and held it until we reached the main gates of University College Cork, as I usually do on campus, only this time I didn't let go after we'd passed through. We moved along the Western Road, toward Washington Street, and as we reached the innards of Cork City, something strange lingered over me.I had become anxious, and soon I wasn't speaking. I was afraid.In my silence, I shot glances around, searching for anyone who might do us harm. I felt an unease as cars slowed down next to us. I wondered whether they would shout "Faggot!" or "Queer!" at us, as they had done before when I had been in previous relationships or had otherwise felt like showing my love and affection through the simple act of hand holding. I wanted to keep holding because it was cold, and my boyfriend's hand felt so comforting, but I did not want to put him through the hurt and pain that words can cause. It was then that, having consulted my conscience, I almost let go.But something very different happened. I felt a torrent of anger at the world. I felt angry at society for making me feel this way, for telling me that I can't hold my boyfriend's hand without feeling fear, without feeling trepidation, without feeling a niggling sense of shame. And I felt angry at myself for even entertaining the idea that this was not something that I should be doing. Suddenly I felt proud, and yet despite the fact that no one had yelled slurs at us, I still felt like it could happen any minute.That day I felt so scared that I became angry at the homophobia that I had ignored since my teens, and I felt so angry that I couldn't let go. I held my boyfriend's hand all the way to Paul Street in the centre of the city. I felt defiant, and elated that it felt normal to me, but I still felt afraid. I still felt anxious. I still felt homophobia [sic]".
Olan's full piece can be read here.
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