

Lord Ivar Mountbatten (L) and Chip Bergh, President and CEO of Levi Strauss & Co.[/caption]
“’Coming out’ is such a funny phrase but it's what I suppose I did in a rather roundabout way, emerging to a place I'm happy to be. I have struggled with my sexuality and in some ways I still do; it has been a real journey to reach this point.”
Mountbatten’s new boyfriend is a cabin services director. They met in a Swiss resort last year when Coyle mistook Mountbatten for a friend.
Mountbatten reveals that he feared exploring his sexuality in his teens though he did identify as bisexual, something his former wife Penny was aware of,
“I just did not want to go there because there would have been so much grief.”
“I never thought I would get married because I didn't want to be untruthful. Penny was aware before we got married. I told her I was bisexual, that my attraction went both ways. She was understanding and I will always be grateful to her. We had a lot of fun, we have three fabulous daughters and I don't regret any stage of my life.”
“Ultimately, Penny did not feel sufficiently loved and she wanted more from a husband than she could get from me. Given my sexuality, I was quite surprised she married me in the first place. It was brave. Perhaps she thought she could change me but in the end she realised she couldn't.”
Coyle says that he had one condition for the pair pursing the relationship.
“If I was going to be with him, it had to be in the open with friends and family. I wanted us to be honest, not to hide anything, not to be anything else,” he said.
Mountbatten concludes by admitting he’s a lot happier now.
“I am a lot happier now, though I am still not 100 per cent comfortable with being gay.”
“In an ideal world, I know the girls would like their mother and father still to be together, but they love their 21st Century family that we have built too. Their father has a boyfriend. It's that complicated and that simple, but finding James means I will not have to lie to anyone or grow old on my own.”
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