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11th May 2015

Cosy Night In? Here Are The Six Best Sex Positions For That Ultimate Orgasm

Because life is too short to fake it....

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We’re all in agreement that sex is great… but not all sex was created equal.

Despite what Hollywood romantic comedies would like to tell us, most women don’t come the minute their fella throws them down on the bed and a large number of ladies struggle to have an orgasm, regardless of how long or energetic a session they are enjoying.

There are certain positions that make it that bit easier to achieve that orgasm so if you’re getting frustrated at faking it or just want to spice up your routine, try one or two of these.

1) Missionary

This may seem surprising as missionary is often seen as the ‘boring’ position but it’s one of the most popular with women due to the increased intimacy of feeling the weight of your partner on top of you.

To supercharge this old favourite, ask your significant other to enter you diagonally, rather than just in and out, as this will increase clitoral stimulation.

The simple orgasm: A clitoral orgasm is one of the easiest ways to experience sexual pleasure and it’s a good place to start if you struggle to hit the big O when you’re in bed with your man. Simply relax and get your man to focus all his attention on that part of your body. Experiment with different pressure, sensations and rhythms to find out what works best for you.

2) Girl on top

The best thing about getting on top is that it gives you full control over the angle, the rhythm and everything else that is going on… which is the perfect environment to get yours.

Try moving in a a figure of eight or grinding in slow circles to stimulate the clitoris, as many women fail to reach orgasm from penetration alone.

Fake it: Eh… we don’t mean it in THAT way. What we do mean, however, is that sometimes you have to fake it before you make it. If you act like you’re confident in the bedroom, eventually it will become a habit and you will actually BE confident. It really is as simple as that.  If you’re struggling to fake it, here’s a simple thing you can try. Think of the sexiest female celebrity you know. How does she act? How does she walk/talk/pout? Emulate her behaviour in the bedroom. It will help you to stop worrying and bring you out of yourself a little bit.

3) Back it up

One of the best perks about facing away from your man is that it gives his wandering hands full access to your entire body. From doggie style position on all fours, arch up and place your hands on a wall.

This allows him to bring you to orgasm with his fingers and he’ll certainly have no complaints!

Communicate positively: Too often we tend to keep quiet and not communicate with our partners. Try being open and honest with your man. Talk about how you can both improve your sex life for the better and remember, sex is supposed to be fun! Relax, let go and laugh if something goes wrong. Being able to communicate positively will seriously strengthen your relationship.

4) Elevation

When it comes to orgasm, it’s all about the angles. Whether it’s a table, desk or kitchen counter (we don’t judge), lie down with your bum at the edge and wrap your legs around your man.

Again, he can use his hands to help bring you to orgasm and he gets a pretty great view! Try clenching and lifting your butt to speed things up.

The connection: Underneath all the cards, chocolates and flowers, Valentine’s Day is a day that’s all about celebrating the connection that you share with your other half. If you feel like making things romantic rather than raunchy in the bedroom tonight, try this... Get into the missionary position, but wrap your legs around your man as high as they’ll go. Get him to lean to one side, with one elbow supporting him. Lean your body slightly alongside his so you’re half on your back and half on your side. You’ll get all the benefits of missionary-style sex but with the added plus of having one hand free to roam and caress. This position is perfect for intimate, emotionally-charged sex.

5) Spooning

Let’s face it. After a long day, sometimes you just don’t have the energy to be climbing on furniture and doing your best Meg Ryan impression. Worry not as this next position doesn’t require much movement at all.

Hop into bed and get into spooning position with your man behind you. After he enters, let his rock back and forth so that he is rubbing against the front wall of your vagina as this increases your chances of having a G-spot orgasm.

8. Spooning: Although spooning doesn’t involve eye contact, it promotes emotional connection because he’ll be protectively cradling your body with his own. This position is great for touching so allow his hands to wander. If you want to develop a deeper connection, try holding hands with your man during this position. It sounds silly, but during sex it becomes an intimate act.

6) The lawnmower

Lie down on the bed and get your partner to lift your legs until you are at a 45 degree angle, supporting your weight on your elbows.

If you’re feeling flexible, throw one of your legs over his shoulder and wait for the magic to happen!

The Lap Dance: This sex move is basically a full on fantasy for men.  Get him to sit on a chair and slowly peel off your clothes and climb into his lap, so you’re sitting on top of him. Straddle him and whisper naughty things in his ear – if you feel brave, tug on his hair a little or kiss his neck.