Her Sexpert Advice: We’ve Got All Of The Ins And Outs… Part II – Bringing The Buzz To The Bedroom

In the second of a three part series, our friends over at Secrets Ireland will be answering your questions about sex, sex toys and everything else you have ever wanted to know about intimacy. So if you’ve got a question, just ask! In Part I we answered queries on how to go about introducing toys to partners and tackled hygiene issues but for Part II it is all about bringing the buzz to the bedroom. _________________________________________________________ Q. I have never used a sex toy and to be honest wouldn't know what to buy. Would you suggest anything in particular for a first time user? (Sinead - Swords) Like all toys, there are products perfect for beginners. The Doc Johnson Velvet Touch Vibrator is a great vibrator to get you started. How it works? Its twist end base allows the user to adjust the speed to suit their pleasure preferences and has a velvety smooth texture. This is one classic every lady needs to own. Another option is Silicone Realistic Vibrator , just over six inches of sheer pleasure. This is a super beginner’s vibrator as it's not too hard on the wallet and a perfect way to start your toy collection.   Q. Is it true that women who use vibrators have better orgasms during sex? (Laura - Co. Clare) Many surveys suggest that women who use vibrators find it easier to orgasm during (vibrator-free) sex with their other half. If you struggle to orgasm during sex, treat yourself to a toy and explore solo and don't hesitate to bring a little buzz into the bedroom once you're done doing it alone. When you’re ready, introduce it to your partner and experiment with it together. The great news is you don't have to feel selfish. It could improve his orgasms as well as your own.   Q. I travel a lot and I'm terrified to carry my vibrator with me in my luggage in case it gets lost or stopped for a spot check! Is there a vibrator suitable for travel or am I pushing my luck?! (Tracey - Co. Cork) Tracey, you're in luck! No one should have to leave their beloved toy at home and that is where the Screaming O Bullet comes in handy. It's a discreet compact mini-vibrator designed specifically to powerfully hit the target (you'll be glad to know that this little thing packs a punch). Not just for girls: This bullet is ideal for stimulating the clitoris or during male masturbation on the head of the penis.   Sex should be fun and exciting, not boring and mundane, so if you want to try something new then you can check out the wide range of products on the Secrets Ireland website over here. If you would like a question answered feel free to email us at hello@her.ie. Until next time ladies, here is a small token to head over and redeem on the site… it’s been a pleasure.