Never Have Bad Sex Again! Revealed: The 6 Bedroom Mistakes To Avoid At All Costs

Despite the fact that most of us would like to think that we’re perfect, sometimes we make mistakes. Whether we mess up in our professional or our personal lives, we’re only human.

It’s important to realise that mistakes happen and they happen everywhere – including the bedroom. Sex mistakes are things that people don’t usually talk about. In fairness, telling everyone that we occasionally do something stupid between the sheets won’t exactly help our chances in that department.

They say that being forewarned is forearmed. With that in mind we thought we’d look at the six most common sex mistakes that people tend to make and, more importantly, how we can avoid making them in the first place.

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It's not just down to him to make the experience good

Mistake #1: Expecting Him To Do All The Work

There’s a common misconception that when it comes to sex, the man should do all the work. What an outdated concept! Sex is a partnership and you’re just as responsible for creating pleasure as he is. Try working with your partner and doing everything you can in order to ensure that the experience is just as good for both of you.

Make your bedroom a worry-free zone

Mistake #2: Allowing Your Worries To Take Over

When you’re getting down and dirty with your fella, the last thing you should be doing is worrying about work/the dishes/an upcoming event. Worrying does two things: it stresses you out so you can’t enjoy the experience and it slashes your chances of having an orgasm in half. Make a promise to yourself that you’ll switch your mind off and relax every time you enter the boudoir. Keep your bedroom a worry-free place!

Be open to trying new things

Mistake #3: Refusing To Try New Things

One of the tougest things to break out of is a sex rut so do yourself a favour and avoid getting into one in the first place. We’re not suggesting that you suddenly become a swinger or invest in a bunch of sex equipment that would make Christian Grey blush, but we are suggesting that you keep your mind open and cultivate a willingness to try new things. Try talking about your fantasies with your partner. Is there anything you’d really like to try? As long as you feel comfortable doing it, take the plunge. Who knows? You might find out that you like the odd spanking every now and then...

Sex doesn't just have to happen in the bedroom

Mistake #4: Becoming Geographically Challenged

Here’s a radical statement: sex doesn’t have to happen in the bedroom. Yes, believe it or not there are other areas of the home that are perfect for a bit of hanky panky. Don’t be afraid to break out of your routine and try getting dirty in the kitchen or the bathroom or the livingroom or the balcony (if you’re feeling super-daring).

Try finding a few other positions that do the job for you instead of relying on one

Mistake #5: Being Stuck In Position

It’s all well and good having a go-to position when you want to orgasm but doing the same thing over and over again means that you’re more at risk of getting bored. For one night only, try spicing things up. Go online and pick a few different positions. Give them a try and see what works for you and your man. Remember: variety is the spice of life!

Try dedicating more time to your sex life

Mistake #6: Watching The Clock

Most of us don’t give sex the time that it needs. It’s a fact. Did you know that the average romp lasts less than 15minutes? Poor show. You don’t have to spend hours in bed with your other half but why not try making time for it? Clear an evening some weekend and don’t rush the experience. Spend time exploring each other’s bodies and trying new things. Remember: sex helps us to feel a connection and develop bonds with our partners, so see this time as a quality investment in your relationship.