Ramp Up The Heat: The Nine Steps To A Hotter Sex Life

It’s the weekend!

A few late nights, a few lazy mornings in bed… sounds perfect. Nothing can beat some quality time with your man… but don’t let your loving become monotonous.

Interested to see how a few easy tweaks to your bedroom antics could transform your sex life from “good” to “mind-blowing, lip-biting, lovah-lovah time with your other half"?

Of course you do. Read on…

Spice Up The Norm

While most people have heard that it’s tough for a woman to climax in this standard sexual position, with a little manoeuvre here and a little tweak there, it could become your favourite go-to move. The secret is coital alignment technique. It doesn’t sound very exciting, but we’re guaranteeing a passionate position. Instead of having your guy chest to chest, have him shift forward so that his chest is closer to your shoulders. This increases direct stimulation and may provide enough to push you to orgasm. Now, who said missionary was boring?

It’s All About The Eye Contact

This is a tantric secret from Ancient India. We can’t understand how someone didn’t reveal this magic move sooner. Eye contact develops deep sexual and erotic intimacy. You are completely focused on your partner, and him on you. You are together on every level, physical, emotional and spiritual. Forget about the lamp, ceiling , pillow… think about the person you are with.

Quickie Time!

There is something very, very sexy about the fast, need-you-know, no-time, ignore-the-doorbell kind of sex. It can really turn up the heat in the bedroom, or anywhere else. Let your partner know you want him here, now. It’ll be very hot.

Some Sex-ting, Perhaps?

A little sexting with your other half can really ramp up the sexual heat. A sexy secret sent by text, just make sure (as in double check) it is the right number, and nobody will know what you’re talking about. By the time you meet up with each other that evening, you’ll be craving one-on-one time with him.

Play It Safe, But Fun

Safe sex is always key to enjoyable sex, but why not experiment with your contraception? Try different sizes and textures of condoms to find out which gives you both the most sensation.

Breeeeeathe…

Another tantric trick is to practice synchronised breathing. It helps to focus and tune in to each other for greater intimacy. Commit to keeping your breathing pattern connected and your sex life will naturally become more enjoyable.

Is That Chocolate?

Including food in your bedroom antics can be extremely erotic. How about some melted chocolate or whipped cream? Find out how to combine your passion of chocolate and your love for your man here

Keep It Stress Free

Stress can be a major buzz kill for your sex life. If your time together is being affected from stress, consider that, instead of trying to make sex happen, you and your partner would probably do better learning how to relax and stay stress-free.

Try Something New

Keep an open mind and don’t be afraid to suggest something new. Keep an eye out for sex positions you haven’t tried before in magazines or online and mention them to your partner, he'll be very excited, believe us...