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21st September 2017
05:04pm BST

She eventually pressed charges and her attacker was later convicted but rather than things improving, they got worse.
Trish was shunned in the country village she had lived in all her life.
"People I knew turned their backs on me, pretended they didn't know me."
After a friend of the relative who attacked her threatened to kill her one night, she decided to sell her home. Fourteen years on, she has never returned to the town she grew up in.
Niamh, meanwhile, was raped by an intruder in the house she lived in in a French town.
Her attacker was caught and given the maximum sentence in court but, like Trish, Niamh's life was forever changed.
"People treat you differently. How can I explain it? In France you get a kiss, suddenly I was getting a handshake.
"I felt contaminated. I could see people looking at me and turning away and going to another area and I thought 'Oh my God am I filthy? Am I a dirty little secret?'"
As time we, she realised, people simply didn't know how to treat her.
It wasn't until an elderly man in the town bumped into her and told her he was proud she hadn't left the town that she felt normal, she said.
"I remember feeling valued."
Rape survival is a life sentence and one that few will get through without wider support.
Both of the women in tonight's were suicidal after their attacks and credit talking with getting them through.
"There's no right or wrong way to treat a rape victim but silence is the killer," says Niamh.
Believing rape victims might be the first step in recovery but continuing to listen to them long after the fact is perhaps even more crucial.
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