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12th July 2015
04:45pm BST

De-clutter
Your bedroom is where all the action happens and if it’s cluttered and messy, you’re not going to relax and get into the swing of things properly.
Pick a day to have a big tidy up: take out all the clutter, put away your clothes and anything that doesn’t belong there, get rid of it. It's all about setting the scene and dirty laundry certainly won't help that!
Birthday suit
It might sound strange, but walking around your house naked as often as you can will help to boost your confidence. Obviously, it may be quite hard if you’re house-sharing, but even take some time in your bedroom to have a wander in the buff.
Fancy something new?
Another way of giving your sexual confidence a boost is suggesting something new for you and your partner to try out together. Be it talking dirty or acting out one of your fantasises, you’ll be surprised how quickly something new that you are both testing out together will give you confidence under the covers.
De-stress
Stress can have a big impact on your libido. If you are feeling stressed out at the end of the day, run a hot bath, pour yourself a glass of wine and ask your partner to give you a massage. You’ll be surprised how quickly relaxation time can turn into sexy time.
Visual stimulation
Getting a good look at what’s going on between the sheets can be another major turn-on and a boost to your confidence. Pop a few strategically placed mirrors around the bedroom and then have fun trying out different positions with a good view of all the action in the mirror.
Lighting
If you’re still not feeling on top of the world and would rather hide under the covers than frolic on top of them, consider the lighting in your room. Low lighting and candles can be a great help to get you in the mood and bring it from being a regular night in the pjs to a romantic and sexy encounter.
Praise
This is one for all the other halves out there – be sure to praise your partner between the sheets. If they are doing something you love, let them know about it. Their confidence will shoot up immediately and, let's be honest, it’s always nice to hear it in return.

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