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4th March 2018
09:41am GMT

However, according to a relationship expert, the main reason why people are failing at dating is because they are making the "mistake" of having sex too early.
Right.
Dating coach Jo Barnett recently told indy100 that the biggest mistake people make on dates is "getting everything they want straight away."
Or, in other words, having sex.
Now, there is absolutely a point to be made here.
Going home with somebody on a whim, having disappointing sex, and never speaking again is not the greatest scenario in the world.
However, going home with someone on a whim, having great sex, and speaking for months afterwards, eventually forming a bond and perhaps even a relationship, is.
There are no set rules to say that sleeping with somebody before you get to know them will mean that all the fun or excitement will automatically be gone from the relationship.
After all, assuming that all the excitement comes from sex is questionable in itself.
If anything, the "biggest mistake" that people make when it comes to dating is overthinking things - if you want to go home with someone on a first date, do it.
And if you don't, don't.
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