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16th Dec 2018

A powerful poem about domestic abuse at Christmas is doing the rounds

Jade Hayden

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A powerful poem about domestic abuse at Christmas has been doing the rounds online.

The piece highlights the struggles faced by many women who live with abusive partners and shows that the festive season is not always such a positive time for everybody.

UK domestic abuse charity, Refuge, shared the poem last week.

They encouraged people to read the piece as they would a normal poem first – and then read it backwards.

It reads:

Our first Christmas together

I had been so excited to have

him

around

I had started tiptoeing

down the stairs

And he had a surprise waiting… he threw me

a party

He knows how to spoil

a simple girl!

He called me

in front of everyone

Then he cut me off

a sprig of mistletoe

We shared a kiss underneath

Our friends cheered as

outside, the snow silently settled.

Reading the poem forwards depicts a standard Christmas party where couples are kissing, friends are cheering, and snow is falling.

Reading the piece backwards tells a different story though – one where a party is spoiled, a woman is assaulted, and expectations of a Christmas spent together are not met.

The poem has been shared widely online with many people commending the charity for their creative way of raising awareness.

If you have been affected by any of the details of this article, you can contact Women’s Aid on 1800 341 900.