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8th June 2021
04:39pm BST

A quick Google of the words 'Meghan' and 'baby' lead to a plethora of new articles about her daughter's birth, some informative and cheery, others accusatory and churlish.
She kept the birth secret for TWO DAYS? Shocking. She announced the news on her WEBSITE? Rude. She named her baby after Queen Elizabeth BECAUSE SHE AND HARRY HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH THE QUEEN AND WANTED TO SHOW HER RESPECT IN THIS PLACE? Heartless and cruel.
Naturally, most of the criticism - and the topics of comments under such articles - was focused on the baby girl's name. A sweet gesture suddenly became an assault, an offence to the Queen and the rest of the royal family, who had clearly not considered so brazenly naming one of their own children after Her Majesty herself.
The irony is that had Meghan (and Harry, let's not forget he also exists) chosen a name entirely devoid of royal connection, that decision would have been called a snub. There would have been similar outrage had the couple named their daughter something that wasn't directly related to the Queen, just as there was eye rolling when they did.
Even in times of tragedy and pain, there has been criticism. When Meghan so candidly and bravely wrote about her experience of miscarriage, she was praised, but she was also dubbed brash and attention seeking. When she spoke of her suicidal thoughts after joining the royal family, she received little sympathy from influencers like Piers Morgan, who branded her a liar on national TV.
Yet, surprisingly, the one person who would be expected to spout such nonsense following the birth of a child has, at the time of writing, stayed entirely silent on the matter.
In a tweet that reads decidedly un-Piers-like, the former GMB presenter wrote: "To those asking for my reaction to the new royal baby, I am respecting her parents' constant pleas for privacy and declining to comment." In fairness, there's probably a jibe in there somewhere, it's just not as blatant as we're used to.
Over the past few years, Meghan Markle has married Prince Harry, left the royal family, and moved back to the place she has for most of her life called home. She's mother to two young children, recently signed a Netflix deal, and no longer has to worry about being denied mental health assistance. She can paint her nails.
It's impossible to talk about the royal family without talking about privilege. But lately, it seems it's also impossible to talk about royal life without recognising the lack of freedom - and oftentimes, compassion - people born or married into such lives are subjected to.
Meghan Markle lives on her own terms now, and maybe that means that she has, in fact, won after all.