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29th March 2015
05:00pm BST

Get checked
Untreated STIs can affect fertility in the long term. While it might not necessarily be an easy subject to broach with your partner, it’s worth being honest about your sexual history. Often, a simple course of medication will clear up all but the most serious infections.
What next?
Keeping track of your menstrual cycle is perhaps one of the best ways to increase your chances of conception.
It is easy to miscalculate the day of ovulation and sex in the immediate run-up to ovulation is more likely to lead to conception. Remember that sperm can survive for a number days in the female reproductive tract.
How often should you have sex?
There's no real rule as to how often you should have sex to improve your natural conception chances. Some couples try for a baby every day, others every second day. Twice a week at least is optimal.
Find ways to relax
Trying for a baby can be immensely stressful for both man and woman, leading to stress, anxiety and even depression, which in turn, may lower your chances of success.
While it's easier said than done, you and your partner should try to find ways to unwind and relax. Pursue your hobbies and enjoy the outdoors.
The key thing to remember is that sex is fun, not a chore. If you treat your baby-making like a chore, you could be doing more harm than good by putting extra pressure on both you and your partner.
And remember…
Everyone is different, and factors or combinations of factors that work for others may not work for you.
Thankfully, many troubles with conception can be dealt with naturally, through simple lifestyle adjustments.
As always, if you are experiencing any issues or need more advise, pay a visit to your local GP.
Declan Keane is a Senior Clinical Embryologist and fertility expert at ReproMed fertility clinic, based in Dublin and Kilkenny. Explore more on these topics: