We're taught from a young age to take our own path and to only compete with ourselves.
It's fair to say, that with every good intention, we can feel life getting in under our skin and competitive streaks can come to the surface. Whether it was the CAO race following the Leaving Cert, or your frenemy that always seems to win out - if we're honest there's at least once in our life we look for recognition from another source.
So, if you're a musician, surely you want to know your music has made it?
Following the success of his band's ninth studio album
Murder Ballads in 1996, Nick Cave learned that he was nominated for an MTV Award, as Best Male Artist. That nomination was soon withdrawn, however, as a result of the following rejection letter from Mr. Cave to the event's organisers.
The letter read:
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21 Oct 96
To all those at MTV,
I would like to start by thanking you all for the support you have given me over recent years and I am both grateful and flattered by the nominations that I have received for Best Male Artist. The air play given to both the Kylie Minogue and P. J. Harvey duets from my latest album Murder Ballads has not gone unnoticed and has been greatly appreciated. So again my sincere thanks.
Having said that, I feel that it's necessary for me to request that my nomination for best male artist be withdrawn and furthermore any awards or nominations for such awards that may arise in later years be presented to those who feel more comfortable with the competitive nature of these award ceremonies. I myself, do not. I have always been of the opinion that my music is unique and individual and exists beyond the realms inhabited by those who would reduce things to mere measuring. I am in competition with no-one.
My relationship with my muse is a delicate one at the best of times and I feel that it is my duty to protect her from influences that may offend her fragile nature.
She comes to me with the gift of song and in return I treat her with the respect I feel she deserves — in this case this means not subjecting her to the indignities of judgement and competition. My muse is not a horse and I am in no horse race and if indeed she was, still I would not harness her to this tumbrel — this bloody cart of severed heads and glittering prizes. My muse may spook! May bolt! May abandon me completely!
So once again, to the people at MTV, I appreciate the zeal and energy that was put behind my last record, I truly do and say thank you and again I say thank you but no...no thank you.
Yours sincerely,
Nick Cave'
Nick, who only published the letter on his website in late 2012, read out the letter at a recent event for the first time, explaining his motivation.
Video via Canongate Books
We have to admit, it's the first time we heard of a nominee withdrawing from awards glory - but we admire him for sticking to his guns.
